Also pro tip. A nigga not gone change his mind about being with you long term based off when you you fuck him. Whether it’s the first night or the 495th he gonna fade away as soon as he fuck if that was his plan.
I keep telling y'all you can’t convince niggas to not be trash. It’s at the molecular level. They gotta evolve on they own.The point is many ain’t shit niggas aren’t going to wait til the 495th night to fuck if that’s all they want. Women tryna weed those out before getting their feelings hurt.
Niggas will marry you and start a family while he plotting on some other pussy the whole time. 500 days aint shit to a scum bag lmao.
Exaaaactly ^^^ I’ve had a nigga wait 4 years to be with me… Fucking prom night and guess what… He wasn’t shit.
So do you genuinely feel that waiting to have sex with a guy isn’t necessary ?
I’m not saying that. It’s your body, your choice, but using your vagina as a reward at the end of a probationary period with the expectation of starving a man into changing who he is, is foolish. If he wants you long term, you could fuck him first night and end up married to him. If he doesn’t, you can wait forever and he will still feel the same.
So say a woman is waiting to have sex with a man , not because she wants to hold out on him , but because she genuinely wants to see who he is and what he’s about before she takes that step, how would a woman be able to differentiate a guy that’s genuinely interested in her and sees potential for something more and a guy that’s just bating time until he gets what he wants ? It may seem like a dumb question but some guys are really good at pretending to be genuinely interested .
The real answer that no woman wants to hear is, they’re not. Men are not good at portraying these things. They’re sloppy, lazy, and impatient. Everybody else can see the signs which is why there is always that, They gonna say “I told you so” embarrassment factor. The signs are always obvious but women are compassionate and naive to a fault when it comes to realizing them. They ofter ignore and or flat out accept these signs, because they believe love conquers all and that if they just love a man hard enough, he’ll change for them. I believe that if you’re honest with yourself and respect yourself enough to not put up with ANY bullshit, you eliminate 99.9% of these men, y’all claim fool y’all. And I’m just framing the dynamic this way because of current topic. I have let myself be fooled by a women in the past and even though she wasn’t shit, I seen it from jump but I thought I was different.
My tip. Girls get u a bunch of niggas who you know aint shit and fuck with them. Let them run the game and talk the smack; you take ya notes and get smart. Then bounce.
Believe after a few of these dudes run it. You be able to recognize an ain’t shit dude from a mile away.
Also unless you in a committed relationship where u both discussed it. you single. And even if it is low key he out there acting single too. Mr. Right walked right by u while you trying to force a nigga who can’t call you back into a relationship.
Men are never gonna stop playing their games. The girls who win are the girls who playing too but playing smarter.
This the worst advice I ever seen in my life tbh. You don’t have to be ran through (Which if that’s ya goal in life do you, no judgement) to recognize game. All you need is common sense, which most women have. The problem is, you need the will and mentality to say that when you see these signs, you gonna cut him loose because you deserve better.
niggas love blaming women for NIGGAS being ain’t shit lmao
People love skipping the part that conflicts with what they said so they can appear to have made a point. When I clearly said " And I’m just framing the dynamic this way because of current topic. I have let myself be fooled by a woman in the past and even though she wasn’t shit, I seen it from jump but I thought I was different. “ , but YASSS Girl! go off I guess. Lmao
(via auntymurda)
things I’ve learned to say to boys:
-you’re not funny
-don’t talk to me like I’m dumb
-I probably know more about this than you do
-don’t fucking talk about her like that
-I’m not comfortable with this
-I don’t owe you anything
-you just repeated exactly what I said
-no
(via 50twos)
the scorpio can experience obsessive thoughts and become lost in cerebral mazes that travel into all sorts of pecular caverns. corners of the scorpio’s mind can be haunted, and there are webs of knowledge found in the darkest crevasses. but there is also a high appreciation for the magnificance of life in a silent and obeying way. this is why many scorpio people indulge in sciences. they find it a way to understand the brilliance surrounding them, the intricacy they are so sensitive to. beauty, complexiciy, and mystery arouses their curiosity
Finally
Something other than us being clingy and sex starved
(via fuckyeahsexanddrugs)
Don’t ask anyone but me about me.
I have no interest in being half loved. I have no interest in loving anyone half ass. I don’t know how to half love.
